Comments on: How Long Is Long Enough?

By: madison

madison — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 19:53:55 +0000

i think you should wait awhile because you might not like them like you like them.

By: James

James — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 15:40:55 +0000

In my situation, I can get married now if i very well pleased to do so. The thing is I’m still waiting for a couple of years not because I want to get to know her better, but because of financial reasons. If I had a say in, I would’ve married her six months after I met her. Contrary to anyone’s belief, no one can give you a time limit on marriages.

By: John

John — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 19:49:39 +0000

That is a very difficult question to answer. Personally I believe that there is no absolute standard amount of time that people should wait before they get married, I think that the couple should get married whenever they are most comfortable.

By: Calvin

Calvin — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 04:56:07 +0000

i believe that there should be a signifcant amount of time before on gets married preferably after college becauses statisticaly the average marrage does not last as long as it should if the persons are married betweent the ages of 20-24. but what do i know “love” is a powerful thing so what might not work for one couple might work for the next. so all in all i think if you and your partner put an equal amount of time and trust and all the other great things a relationship is based on the couple could last a great time but hey marriage sucks all in all.

By: Gregory

Gregory — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 04:27:57 +0000

I believe that the couple should be friends/best friends before getting married. Divorce is running rampent in the U.S. today. One of the reasons is not getting to know the person before you put the ring on. Marriage is not a game. People need to be sure of their decision. Too many people think they love the person at one sight. They only see the cover and about five or six pages, not the entire book.

By: Danielle

Danielle — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 23:25:13 +0000

I think it all depends. I mean it isn’t really smart to marry someone without knowing everything about them. I think you need to wait a little bit more time before you get married in order to see if you really love the person. I say this because divorce rate has gone up.

By: Ashley

Ashley — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 22:27:57 +0000

I really don’t know how long you should wait. It all depends on the people invoulved in the relationship. If it feels right you should go for no matter how long you’ve known the person. BUt you shounldn’t just settle. No matter what always go for what you want. If the relationship dosn’t feel right well then you shouldn’t marry him.

By: Tameeca

Tameeca — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 22:16:10 +0000

I think that you should know a person for at least a year before you marry them. The reason for that is because you can never know everything about a person and even if you’ve known them for a year or your whole life, you still don’t really know them.These days you have a lot of people who say that it is “love at first sight” and thats why they got married. But, truthfully how can you meet someone and already be willing to give up everything for them. Another thing is people who get married too soon sometimes don’t last. They seem to forget the whole “till death do us part.” Thats why I believe you should wait for at LEAST a year.

By: Andraus

Andraus — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 13:28:31 +0000

You should not have to know them long but feel comfortable with them if you are thinking about settling down it shouldn’t matter if you known the person for 10 days or 10 years if you love them them you marry them.

By: TEVIN

TEVIN — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 13:24:10 +0000

To me I would have to like this person a lot to marry them. I am not trying to rush into things right now so I think I shel wait .